annoying

So, there's some weirdness at my work because some people know I'm trans, and some don't.

Today I had to listen to two guys make complete asses of themselves because they don't know I'm trans and expect me to listen to them while they spew stupid trans phobic crap like, " Well when I look at [insert name of other trans guy who works where I work] all I can see is a girl."

That devolved into one of those guys who is often flirtatious with me saying some stupid stuff. I assured him he didn't because if any self-respecting woman heard him say any of that crap she'd kick him to the curb so fast it would make his head spin. His response, "I don't *do* fish."

Why do people have to say shit like that?

I never know how to respond. I said something like, " I can't believe your're stupid enough to say that out loud."

I don't know. It just. . .it just. . . arrgggh.